Thursday, 27 November 2014

OFF TOPIC: My top ten songs of 2014...

So as I mentioned some time ago... I am intending to very occasionally go 'off topic' and use my blog to discuss some other aspects of my life and interests, and this is one such post. So being as it's that time of year, when everyone starts looking back over the year and rating the best and worst, I thought I would share with you my favourite ten songs of the year (albeit not necessarily in order, that would be difficult and too subject to change). 
After a lifetime of Metal, these last couple of years I have really embraced electronic music. For me, music needs to be fresh and stimulating and the thing with Metal now is that the best albums are a long time in the past, those bands are not going to top their early work and the new bands just don't cut it for me. The great thing about electronic music is that it's very forward looking and the bands I like seem to be getting better with each release (which is like Metal was in the 80s for me).

AESTHETIC PERFECTION: The New Black

I was lucky enough to see Aesthetic Perfection in February supporting the new album 'Til Death', an album which has enjoyed seriously heavy rotation since it's release on my car stereo.


SHIV-R: The Eye of the Needle

This is quite recently released, but I love it. I especially love the bit about half way through where it stops and he starts singing 'I don't care, if you get hurt...', and especially the second time with the harmony vocal. Awesome!


FRONT LINE ASSEMBLY: Next War

This is my favourite Frontline Assembly song, I think it's a collaboration with someone else. In all honesty I wish they would do more stuff that sounds like this!


ADVANCE: Weapon of Choice

Advance is a new band from Scotland, I unexpectedly saw them in Sheffield this year as support to Ayria and they blew me away. Tom really sounds like Midge Ure sometimes, which is a good thing.


COMBICHRIST: Maggots at the Party


Not the most electronic of songs, but Combichrist are essentially an electronic band. Mistress R doesn't really share my new found passion for electronic music, but she certainly likes this one.


CELLDWELLER: End of an Empire

I would dearly love to see Celldweller live, but as far as I know he's yet to play a proper live gig in the UK. He did a sort of gig-cum-DJ set at Resistanz Festival a couple of years ago, and in hindsight I kind of wish I'd gone, because who knows when or indeed if Klayton will come back?


SUBSTAAT: Berlin

This is just a great pop song really, very cool. The whole album s good too...the video on the other hand is a bit shit.


FADERHEAD: Stand Up!

I saw Faderhead play earlier in the year (with Aesthetic Perfection) and since then I've grown to love the last two albums.


AYRIA - Missed the Mark

Ayria is a Canadian solo artist who on this song actually sounds a bit like Madonna! Good song, and a really good live performer too.

AESTHETIC PERFECTION: The Dark Half

I had intended for this to be ten songs from ten bands, but I can't find a video for Cyferdyne's 'Jigsaw' and I'm not sure which songs are the best from Surveillance's album, so I thought fuck it, I'll chuck in another Aesthetic Perfection tune. Like I said, 'Til Death' has been played to death this year...


Sunday, 23 November 2014

Two blogs to check out from my readers...

A couple of blogs to make you aware of, one is 'appy's' blog DESIRED SUBMISSION and the other is DOMMESTIC BLISS.

Going off topic...

Reading other peoples blogs often makes me realise how simple my life with Mistress R is. We've been married for over twenty years, we don't have any kids (or pets now), we don't have arguments (almost never), we don't really have anything to cope with, I work longer hours than I would ideally like, but we still have plenty of time to enjoy each other... the truth is sometimes it's hard to find things to blog about.
There's the Femdom sessions of course, but at best they are only once a month and often fall short of that. I can't really blog about devices, since I don't wear one. Of course there was a lot of adjustment to write about in the beginning, we had some trying times as we got used to our new roles and Mistress had to get used to reading about herself on my blog. Indeed there were times when she didn't want to read it, and I didn't want her to read it, but ultimately it became a force for good. Mistress definitely enjoyed reading people's reactions to her photographs for instance... and those days of awkward conversations are long behind us (thankfully).
Most blogs seem to be about a (deep sigh) journey... but once you get to the destination there is less to say. Of course you could argue that our journey seems to have barely started, but I fear that anyone who thinks that way is destined for disappointment.
I know you guys read other blogs where things are constantly evolving and deepening, where the submission gets more and more intense. But I honestly don't think that is on the cards for me and Mistress R. I would love for the Femdom element to become more a regular part of our lives, but I just don't think it will. At least not in any great 'blog-able' sense.
So, I'm just giving advance warning really that sometimes I might decide to go a bit more off topic in my posting. I still want this to be a chastity/femdom blog and 95% of the time it will be exactly that. But sometimes, I might want to post about something else. I won't be offended if you don't want to read about whatever that something else might be, and out of courtesy to you I will put the words OFF TOPIC in big letters in the title. But ultimately this is my blog, and if I want to post something about mushrooms being the food of the devil, or whatever, then I'm afraid that's up to me.

Saturday, 22 November 2014

An unexpected ending...

Last night my latest period of chastity came to an unexpected ending. Mistress and I went to bed quite late and once there we cuddled as we often do, and as usual my cock responded to being close to Mistress's sexy body (as you would expect, especially having not been allowed to come for 34 days). Mistress wrapped her hand around my cock and started stroking me and we kissed, something about this felt different... indeed, since we've started on this path, this kind of late night, spontaneous 'sex' (for want of a better word) has been the one thing that has all but gone by the wayside, which I must admit, I rather miss.
I gently started teasing Mistress's freshly trimmed pussy and she responded by opening her legs wider, allowing me to gradually slip my finger inbetween her lips. Mistress told me she wanted me inside her, and I moved down the bed and positioned myself between her legs. Mistress wasn't really as wet as she might have been, but after a couple of strokes I was fully inside her and really, we just made love like normal vanilla people do, and it was total wonderful. After a while I could feel myself getting close and I paused for a second to try and keep it together a while longer, but Mistress told me she wanted me to cum inside her, so instead I thrust into her a few more times until I could feel my long awaited orgasm approaching.
As seems customary nowadays on the rare occasions I am allowed to cum inside Mistress when on top, my left leg started to cramp just enough to distract me from fully enjoying my release. It's like a 75% ruined orgasm... it's not like full-scale 'jump of the bed' and hop around the bedroom cramp, it's just mild, but enough to be a real pain in the arse when you're trying to enjoy your first orgasm in nearly five weeks!
It was a very 'vanilla' experience and for reasons I won't go into here something we both really needed, to make us feel close. Mistress didn't tell me to lick her pussy afterwards, and I decided not to either. It wasn't that I didn't want to, just that it was a particular situation, a very vanilla situation and it didn't seem appropriate somehow. If Mistress wants to punish me for failing to carry out my duties properly then I will accept that, our contract is a bit vague on cum eating I think, I need to look it up, I'm not sure who exactly is responsible. I know it says that I should eat my cum every time, but as far as I know it doesn't specify whether I should take the initiative or wait to be told. Perhaps that's the sort of thing we need to clarify.
Afterwards we both commented how strange it was to have sex in the dark, since it's been so long since we have done so... I would have happily have gone down on Mistress, but we were both tired and Mistress elected to wait until this afternoon. On the plus side, this meant that after licking Mistress to a lovely orgasm, I got to enjoy another bout of teasing, so a bit of a win/win for me!
By the end of the teasing I wanted to cum really badly, it seems that every time I cum lately it makes me want to cum again straight away, it's only after a few days that I settle into being denied again. You'd think it would be the other way around really, but that's the way it seems to be at the moment anyway.

Friday, 21 November 2014

Beg me again...

Last night, after giving Mistress a really nice orgasm with my tongue, she gave me a good teasing and left me hard and throbbing. She even let me lick her ass for a little while, but still I was lying there next to her, still rock hard and with aching balls (Mistress is definitely getting more used to pulling my balls about, which is good!) and I wanted more, something, anything!
So I said "Please stroke me just a little more." There was a little pause and then Mistress said, "Beg me again."
So I did, and then Mistress told me that she would give me ten more strokes (she told me to count them too). They were kind of upwards strokes too, kind of frustrating if you know what I mean, finishing at the top rather than the bottom, but still, extra strokes are extra strokes, either way up!
I really loved that she told me to 'beg her again', and the way she said it too. Not in a fake 'domme' voice or anything, more a calm, controlled voice. Like, if that's what you want then you need to beg me, but don't expect more just because I allowed you to beg. As if the begging itself was more interesting or entertaining than the strokes...
Afterwards I said to Mistress R, "You like hearing me beg don't you?"... She smirked a little and just said " Maybe."

Tuesday, 18 November 2014

Back in the saddle...

Sorry there hasn't been much blogging of late, as you may have noticed from the orgasm log nothing much has been happening. Mistress R's period went a bit haywire for a while, hopefully it has sorted itself out now and we can do something about Mistress's woefully low orgasm count for November, it started so well too!
Last night Mistress had a nice orgasm and I was teased but no release was forthcoming. It is day 31 now, it seems to have gone very quickly. It was nice to get back to enjoying Mistress's orgasm, I've really missed it these last few days. Unfortunately our Femdom session was cancelled again, but right now the main priority is to get ourselves back on track. We have an awful lot of busy times now leading up to Christmas so I really don't know when we are going to fit it in.
I realise that may sound a bit ridiculous, given that it's only about an hour long, but it always seems to take up a lot more time than that. It always seems to take me an hour to prepare the room (and myself) beforehand and we usually lay together for half an hour afterwards, so there's 2.5hrs straight off.
Mistress and I have tried having our sessions in the week, but it's never quite the same. We generally prefer them to be on a Sunday morning, but this can also be problematic if we have been doing something late on the Saturday night which leaves us worn out (or hungover... though not me so much, cos I don't really drink).

After a rather lacklustre start I see the second chapter of Once a Month has improved in the ratings, currently it's up to 4.05/5 and has garnered a couple more positive comments. Seems to be lagging a bit in the reading stakes, still less than 10,000 views compared to 58,000 for chapter 1, but I suppose that has been up for three years so... By contrast 'Jodie's First Appointment' has already had more than 23,000 views and is sitting at 4.25, just 0.04 behind the second part, though that's had more than twice as many views (and eleven less votes bizarrely).
I know I've said this before... several times in fact, but I really would like to get an actual proper novel written. I really do need to sit down and plan exactly what it is I want to write and actually do it, rather than dilly dallying about.
Could be a spanner in that potential work though, since I am planning to upgrade my FL Studio package to 'Producer edition'... and that thing eats time!

Saturday, 15 November 2014

If you have a blog, please tell me about it...

I've just come across a blog with a name I recognize on it, one of my comment leavers 'sub hub in phx'. I'm sure I've never seen this blog before, when people join my blog I usually check out the other blogs they have joined but I don't check them all. If you have a blog you think I would like then by all means let me know and I will check it out. In the meantime you can check out sub hub's blog HERE

Monday, 10 November 2014

Cake Farts?

Just having a little browse over The Periodic Table of Kink on Cara Sutra's blog, when I noticed a fetish called 'Cake Farts'. That's a new one on me, I thought... I've heard of teabagging and figging, but never cake farts, whatever could that mean?
Imagine my disappointment when it transpired that cake farts is just farting on a cake. I really don't get some of these fetishes... I never really understood what anyone would get out of sploshing, or balloon play, and I don't really get why anyone would want to fart on a cake.