Have You Ever Had an Orgasm Headache?

Recently I experienced something called an 'Orgasm Headache'... or in my case perhaps more accurately an 'Edging Headache'. This is an intensely painful sensation that starts in your neck and travels up into the back of your head. In fact I would go as far as to say that it was perhaps the second most painful thing I've ever experienced after a ruptured disc in my back many years ago.

Looking online it seems there are two causes for this, one is to do with blood pressure and one is to do with the muscles in your neck and shoulders contracting as you approach orgasm. Well I went to my chiropractor and my doctor and I'm happy to say that the worst of it seems to have passed. My neck and shoulders are still very stiff, but thankfully that terrible stabbing pain in the back of the head during sex has gone.

I'm pretty sure it's not to do with blood pressure, though my reading was a bit high at the doctors so they got me doing that at home for a couple of weeks. But anyway, the blood pressure kind of 'Orgasm Headache' apparently comes on when you actually orgasm and hits suddenly, where the muscular variation builds as you get closer. I'm seeing my chiropractor again tomorrow and hopefully this problem will continue to recede, but at least I am able to enjoy sex with my wonderful Mistress R again!

Speaking of which, on Saturday Mistress and I retired to the bedroom for some R&R and while we were kissing before I went down on her my cock got very hard and as I knelt between her open thighs she reached down and stroked me. This felt so good, not least because I have not had the most responsive cock of late; in fact it's been quite a number of months since I've been teased without using a cock ring.

I had hoped that losing weight would have helped, and maybe it is helping, but it seems age and my nerve damage is working against me here. Still, feeling optimistic, after settling down between Mistress's beautiful thighs and licking her to orgasm I decided to try without the cock ring for a change, not least because I really miss having my balls slapped 'properly' and that's just too painful when they are trapped with a ring behind them.

At first it went well, and I got a decent erection, but unfortunately Mistress is used to being able to tease me very gently with a cock ring on with me still being able to stay rock hard. But in this instance that didn't really work and I quickly lost it. Mistress continued for some time, sucking and stroking me, without a tremendous amount of success, it must be said, until she stood over me and made me beg to lick her delicious ass. 

As usual, this did the trick and I was soon hard again, and of course I absolutely loved every second of it! Mistress rose up and made me beg a second time, before allowing me another bout of heavenly ass worship that left me teetering on the brink of orgasm. As Mistress moved to my side, I warned her I was close and she let go, moving to kiss me as I fought to keep control.

Mistress looked down at my throbbing cock and curled her fingers around it, stroking it very slowly and gently until my cum began to leak out. Mistress asked me if I thought was a 'ruin' or a proper 'orgasm' and we agreed that it was definitely ruined as I definitely hadn't enjoyed any kind of 'release' from it.

Then she said 'Well, you know what you have to do now..." and she scooped up my cum with her fingers and told me to lick them clean. 

It was truly wonderful! 😊

The New Story is Doing Quite Well on Literotica so Far...

It's been five days since 'Gareth's Obsession' went up on Literotica, and so far the results are positive. I've had three comments (all nice ones!) and so far it's scoring 4.38/5.0, which is great. Hopefully over time it will get to 4.5 and then it will get a 'HOT' rating. But we'll see what happens. 

It's been read 6,600 times in five days which is pretty good considering it's in the 'Fetish' section, which is not a popular section of the site... but it only has 68 votes so a few more 5's and it could easily go up.

I haven't started wrtiting anything else yet as that one took a lot out of me, but I will start thinking about doing something soon.

Gareth's Obsession (Written November 2024)

CHAPTER ONE 

Gareth sat with his head down, breathing hard. At 46 he was still in good shape, but there was no getting away from it, the gym just wasn’t as much fun as it used to be. In fact these days there was only one thing that kept him coming back… and she didn’t even know he existed. He lifted his head and glanced around the room; the gym was quite busy but he couldn’t see Amanda.

 

He dropped his head for a moment and then hauled himself to his feet. God he hated himself, why did he bother coming here just to catch a glimpse of her? She must be fifteen years his junior and so far out of his league it wasn’t even funny. Plus he strongly suspected she was seeing Alex, the scary looking personal trainer who worked there.

 

He looked around again and spotted his ‘nemesis’ in the corner. The guy was 6’3 minimum and built like a brick shithouse, no way did Gareth want to have a ‘problem’ with Alex! Sure, he seemed friendly enough day to day, but if he really was dating Amanda then he didn’t look like he’d take kindly to another man messing with his girl.

 

He watched Alex explaining to a short, slightly tubby girl  how to use one of the machines. She had obviously just joined the gym and nodded along enthusiastically as he spoke, but honestly seemed far more interested in Alex’s huge, veiny arms than the machine itself.

 

Gareth flicked his eyes around the room again and finally spotted Amanda. Oh shit… every time he saw her it was just like the first; she was simply ‘unreal’. Beautiful blue eyes, shoulder length blond hair tied back in a high ponytail and that incredible body tightly encased in Lycra gymwear… he could barely take his eyes off her.

 

He drank her in for a few more seconds before shifting his gaze, despising himself for being so creepy. He turned to walk away and almost bumped straight into Alex who was now standing close beside him.

 

“Steady on!” said Alex.

 

“Shit sorry, I wasn’t… looking…. where I was going.”

New Story is Finished!

My new story is done. Finally....! And it will be posted here soon. Mistress R has just spent the last hour reading and checking my work - which is much appreciated honestly, because I've spent so long on it now that I honestly can't see the wood for the trees anymore! She didn't find masses wrong with it, just a few punctuation problems and the like... all I need to do now is think of a good title. 

Obviously being that it is going to be posted on Literotica it needs a good title that gives a flavour of what it's about, otherwise how will all the 'rednecks' find it to leave their hilariously nasty comments? Quite why these people bother to read stories like mine when it's plainly obvious that they aren't going to like them I really don't know. At least they will have plenty to go at this time as there's just under 20,000 words to read.

In case you are wondering this is another chastity/cuckold story, with a bit of light Femdom thrown in here and there, but nothing heavy. I know I've written a lot of cuckold stories before, but I find it quite difficult to write a pure chastity story, adding cuckolding to the mix immediately gives you so much more to write about. But maybe next time I will try to write something different...

I have got an idea in mind, but I'm not sure it's really the basis for a story - maybe just a blogpost that someone might find useful...?

Okay, sorry to keep stalling you, I will get it done by tomorrow night at the latest. I'm sure I can come up with a satisfactory title by then.

My Story is Getting Closer...

I've reached that difficult stage of writing a long story where it's nearly finished and I start second guessing everything that I've done. I'm even wondering if there's enough actual 'sex' in the story... originally there was supposed to be another scene which was included but I left it out as it interrupted the flow of the main story. I don't know if that was a good idea or not... but on the other hand it feels like the final scene has more impact because of the long slow build.

I also find it quite hard to choose names for my characters sometimes, especially if I start writing with names that I then decide to change. I feel like in fiction, unlike in real life, characters need names that somewhat reflect their status in the story. So for example a 'submissive' male could be called Peter or James, but not Brad or Mike. 

Similarly an unattainable 'Goddess' type really can't be called Peggy or Betty, it's just not going to work. Or course you can take this too far, I've seen stories on Literotica where the 'submissive' male is called Cedric or something equally daft that means you can't even read it with any sense of investment. So it's a delicate balance, and one that I hope I have got right. But at the end of the day, there comes a point where you have to go with what you've done and for most people who read it as long as it's not obviously jarring they will just take it at face value. 

I've printed my story for the final time and I just need to go through it again with a fine tooth comb (and perhaps decided whether or not to write in the scene I left out) and then it will be time to post it up and start writing the next one. 

Progress on My Latest Story...

I know I said it was coming, I know I said it was close... but it's not quite ready yet. For some reason the last ten days I just haven't had the time to knuckle down and get it finished, but it should definitely be finished and posted by the end of the week. In the meantime I have added four more stories to my 'Stories by Other Authors' page, so if you like you could check those out while you wait. 

STORIES BY OTHER AUTHORS

Quick Update and A Hot Sunday Afternoon...

First of all I just want to give you a quick update on my new story. I've finished the first draft, and re-read it all and now I've printed it out (on 53 sheets of A4 paper!) to start fine tuning it. I didn't get time to look at it yesterday and I am very much aware that I need to keep the momentum going otherwise there is a serious risk of disinterest setting in. 

Also, I am very self-critical about creating things and if I dwell on it too much I know I will start picking it to pieces and want to change things and then before you know it I will convince myself it's absolute garbage - which I know it isn't, and I don't want that to happen. I think it's probably better to keep the rewriting to a minimum and to post it and move on. 

I re-read what I think is my 'best' story yesterday ('Girls Talk'), this is the one that has the most requests for more chapters and, like many of my stories, it deserves at least one more. I do have a tendency to write 'first chapters' rather than stories that are complete in themselves, which is a bit annoying honestly, as even I can see that most stories I write feel incomplete.

But I did notice a couple of small details that bugged me in that story, as I had duplicated them in my new story - I mean I seriously doubt anyone else would have noticed, but I still want to change them. Please don't laugh but one of them is that I gave a character in my new story the same car as one in that story... I mean who the fuck would worry about shit like that but me? FFS. 🤣

As my interest in writing has come back, so has my interest in reading stories by other authors, and I am still working on adding stories to my 'Stories by Other Authors' page. I want to do it nicely though and give each one a banner to click on rather than just a list of links. Currently you can access this page from the link at the bottom of the 'Stories' page (under the links to my stories), but when it is a bit more substantial in content I will put a link somewhere more convenient.

Last night I read a great story, which will definitely be getting a link, called 'Her Enthusiasm Made Me A Cuckold'. I just picked a story at random from the 'Loving Wives' section of Literotica and got lucky. The story starts out as a kind of 'wife watching' story and escalates from there. It was only posted a couple of days ago and apparently 'part two' is in the works. I thought it was really good and my cock was rock hard by the end of it (can't give a higher recommendation than that!).

Speaking of which, as I type this, Mistress and I have just got out of bed after a lovely bit of afternoon playtime. Mistress had a lovely orgasm on my tongue, and it was super easy to make her cum today. I mean I would have loved it to go an a bit longer honestly, she tasted so amazing I just wanted to lick her pussy all afternoon but that's just me all over. Always want to be putting stuff in my mouth. 🤣

The last couple of times I've used the Oxballs Cocksling and it's felt great. I don't know what happens with these things, but I haven't used it for ages because the last time I used it (in a Femdom Session, so not recently) it was very uncomfortable and honestly it felt like it was hindering rather than helping. Which I found kind of strange because over the years it's been very good and very reliable.

So I decided to try it again and it felt great, really easy to get on, comfortable and very effective at keeping my balls tight and my cock hard. Mistress teased, stroked and sucked me beautifully before making my day by having me worship her gorgeous ass. I wanted her ass so bad, and today I was definitely going to ask for it, but in the end she decided she wanted me to do it - which is obviously so much hotter. 

Mistress sucked and stroked my cock as I worshipped her delicious asshole and I gotta tell ya my cock felt huge and rock hard throughout. After the heavenly ass-worship Mistress continued stroking me and since I hadn't had to ask to worship her ass I decided to chance my arm and ask her to remove her bra so I could see her gorgeous breasts. The strap on the side nearest me had fallen down her shoulder anyway, so I mean... 

Mistress looked at me and thought for a second, said 'Not today' and replaced her bra strap.

I mean, was I disappointed - yes, obviously. But considering I just got to worship her divine ass, I couldn't be that upset about it... and secretly I kind of like when she tells me no anyway. That's kinda what got me in this whole mess isn't it - hahaha. 

Misress stroked me to the edge and then stopped and we lay in each others arms feeling very close and happy. But my cock just wasn't getting the message and it continued to throb, until I asked Mistress to please touch it some more. 

This is where the Oxballs really comes into its own, being able to be teased so lightly but still keeping me rock hard. It felt absolutely incredible and I could have laid there all day with my cock being gently stroked and scratched. But at the same time it also felt great when Mistress slapped my tight balls and cock... she really is amazing. 

First New Story in a Long Time...

I am excited to tell you that I am finally writing again and will soon be posting a brand new story which includes elements of chastity, cuckolding, cbt, Femdom, etc... all the stuff you would expect from one of my stories. Only it's a little different this one... and it's also very long. I'm still finishing up the first draft and still wondering whether to add in some extra scenes, but it's already 30 pages of A4 and it's only going to get longer. 

I'm wondering whether to post it in several chapters on Literotica or not. The good thing about doing that is that gives you a few goes at catching people's attention, but equally I have quite a lot of followers who will find it anyway. I don't know... I'll see how I feel when I finish it. 

And then of course there's the question of where to put it, since Literotica still don't have categories that my stories fit into easily. So there's either 'Loving Wives' (where it will get flamed and ripped to pieces but lots of views) or Fetish where it won't get as many views but the audience will be less hostile.

Decisions... 

Anyway, it shouldn't be too long... but don't be surprised if it doesn't appear until next week cos there's still a lot of work to do.