Our thirteenth year of full time chastity has finally come to a close and I thought I would share with you a couple of graphs representing our relative orgasm stats. Not much point doing the other graphs this year as you know we've just had the one Femdom session and I haven't cum anywhere except on my own stomach and Mistress's hands the last two years (hopefully that will change this coming year though...).
As you can see from this second graph, I have enjoyed a total of ten orgasms, 5 ruined and 5 full in the last year. This is the lowest combined total since we started. While I'm happy with 5 full orgasms, I would like a few more ruins (preferably on Mistress's beautiful feet or pussy)... in fact I would be happy to give up full orgasms for more ruined ones, but I guess I will have to wait and see what Mistress decides.
I hope you get your wish RA and great to see how much pleasure you bring your mistress.
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An Ejaculation Graph? A Cum Chart? Orgasm Spreadsheet? :)
ReplyDeleteYes.... why not, haha!
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How many ruined orgasms would it take to give up full orgasms?
ReplyDeleteI don't think I am in a position to negotiate.
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As you know, I love your statistics and regularly check back to see how you are doing? I don’t know why but I am always disappointed when I see your Mistress has allowed you any release. I guess this is me wishing I was in your place getting teased.
ReplyDeleteGood luck for the next twelve months.
Mikemousey
P.S. that is my comment above too
Thanks Mike!
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Hello, I think I've said it before, but I love your statistics and graphs. Always within the world of orgasm control, numbers have excited me. Because it is incredible the feeling you experience on a weekend in a cage, or when for the first time your orgasm is delayed for a couple of weeks, but only when you see the numbers on the table, after a considerable amount of time, like a year, that one understands the magnitude of the effort that goes into trying to live this as a lifestyle. That is, 5 full orgasms in a year. It's a lot. A lot of sacrifice, effort, self-control. I really congratulate you, especially considering that you haven't quit for 13 years.
ReplyDeleteI don't usually differentiate a full orgasm from a frustrated one, although I understand that they are different sensations. In your table, however, you can see if you add the two types, the total also falls over time. 10 orgasms of both types in a year, less than one a month.
I don't remember if I've told you before, but I've always seen you as a bit of an inspiration on this topic. In my case, after many twists and turns, and some failed attempts, in February 2023, my wife and I made the decision to start a new attempt to control orgasms as a lifestyle. At the beginning, with certain conditions it was fun, hard to endure without a device, but very enjoyable. However, over time I feel that it becomes difficult but in a different way. I feel that, although I have a good number of orgasms, the lifestyle becomes more boring, making the effort of holding on from one orgasm to the next very difficult, I wonder if it is worth it.
It should be noted that my Lady, unlike yours, does not like BDSM or Femdom. So it is a vanilla marriage with the condition that I do not masturbate and I only have to finish with her permission when we make love . Her libido is also quite low, which led her to agree with orgasm control, as a way to control that we make love only when She proposes it, once every 2 or 3 weeks.
Here comes the question. How do you manage to endure the meanwhile when nothing happens in the middle? In these 13 years, were there moments where you asked yourself if it was worth the effort?
Anyway, thanks for staying here. And I hope your wishes come true (but be careful, lest your Mistress end up taking all your complete orgasms to exchange them for ruined orgasms, hahaha)