Amazing Late Night Orgasm

Last night I went to bed before Mistress R, who stayed up for another hour or so. When she came to bed I half woke up and felt my cock was already hard as she slid into bed next to me. For a few moments I laid there willing her to stroke my aching cock, but instead she put her arm over my chest and cuddled against me instead. Which only made my cock harder...

I could have 'asked' her to touch my cock of course, or ask to be allowed to touch it myself, but I was still only half awake. Eventually she kissed me goodnight and rolled over to face away from me and I rolled behind her and wrapped my arm around her, pressing my cock into her gorgeous ass.

After a few seconds Mistress reached back and wrapped her fingers around my cock, stroking it. It felt absolutely amazing, but at this point I still didn't actually believe my 65 day chastity stint was going to come to an end.

She continued stroking and my cock was just throbbing like crazy now and all I could think of was being allowed to cum. Mistress started rubbing the head against her ass as she stroked which made it even harder and I was really wondering how much more of this I could take.

Then she pushed my cock down between her cheeks and started pushing her ass back against me, effectively jerking me off with her ass. Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan, this was becoming intolerable! Then she grabbed my cock again and stroked it hard, pushing me towards the edge.

I told her I was close but she kept stroking, slower but still stroking, while telling me that I'd have to wait.  I told her again I was getting close and by now I was thinking there's no way I am not going to cum, even if she does let go. Mistress obviously realised that I was too far gone and continued stroking, and said 'Or maybe not...' 

God it felt incredible as she jerked my cock and I came all over her ass... I can't remember the last time my cock was throbbing so hard before an orgasm. Afterwards I licked her ass clean, but I think most of it had ended up soaking into the bedsheet (unfortunately). 

Wow, just amazing, and I loved how she used her amazing ass to torment me! :)

FEMDOM SESSION: 5th December 2021

Incredibly, today Mistress and I had our seventh Femdom session of this chastity year... which means we've only missed two (August and October) so far and if (as we plan to) we have another session just after Christmas we will be on track to equal our record of eleven sessions (2013-2014) assuming we have one each in Jan-Feb-Mar. But even if the worst happens and we don't have a single session before the end of March 2022, this will still have been our best year since 2015-2016 (nine sessions) which is a fantastic result (we had six for the last two years).

Mistress and I slept in again today, though I don't think either of us benefitted greatly from this - I was constantly dreaming last night (unpleasant some of them) which meant I didn't wake up exactly feeling 'refreshed' despite nine hours in bed, and Mistress was also feeling very stiff when she woke up. 

But instead of feeling sorry for ourselves and 'putting it off til next week when we're bound to be feeling better' we elected to go ahead, cos if there's one universal truth about a Femdom session is you never feel worse for doing it. In fact, there's nothing better to make you feel absolutely amazing!

I was told to 'Surprise' Mistress at the start of the session, which meant I got to choose which things to start the session with. While I was getting the kit out of the bedside drawers I came across a couple of things, firstly the 'prostate' massager we bought.... ooh, I don't know when. Ten-fifteen years ago maybe? Can't honestly remember, but we've never actually used it. And secondly, a vibrating butt plug with dead batteries in it that I'd completely forgotten about.

I remember we tried that and it wasn't particularly amazing, it was too small, not strong enough and it fell out too easily as I remember, but I thought it would certainly 'surprise' Mistress. But then I thought that if I put it in my ass then there was every chance that Mistress would whip me, catch the thin, delicate cord from the control box and break it... so instead I decided to insert the ring ended dildo; being glass this goes in with the barest minimum of lube (to prevent fall out, although it still tried to of course...).

In addition I pegged my nipples, slipped on my red rubber blindfold, the Oxballs Cocksling (and the usual wrist and ankle cuffs) and waited for Mistress to enter the room.  

Mistress was amused to see the pegs on my nipples and remarked that she wondered if I would be thinking that was such a good idea in half an hour's time. Regular readers may remember the last time I chose to peg my own nipples at the start of a session; they were tingling for days as they rubbed against my shirt!

As expected Mistress decided to give me some whipping and paddling to start the session. I didn't have any illegal touching to confess to, but Mistress still made me wince, especially the last five or so strokes. Once that was out of the way she had me worship her beautiful feet while she started to play with her glass dildo.

As I was worshipping her beautiful feet she mused over whether she would let me cum today and suddenly asked me if I was allowed to cum, where would I want to be allowed to shoot. She didn't give me any time to think about it and demanded an answer straight away, and of course I answered that I would want to cum on Mistress's gorgeous feet. 

Mistress found it interesting that my immediate snap reaction was to choose her feet, but she reminded me that even if she did let me cum there was no guarantee that she would take my wishes into consideration. She said she might just make me cum all over her glass dildo and lick it clean instead, which was very hot for me to hear.

Once satisfied that her feet had properly worshipped, Mistress had me get up on the bed and kneel upright. She knelt in front of me and said 'I'm not convinced that these pegs are doing the job they are supposed to' and opened the one on my left nipple. I winced loudly as the blood rushed back into my nipple and she replaced it, then did the same with the other one. Then she told me to lie down and she secured me to the bed.

Mistress stood over me and told me she would permit me to see her now and allowed me to beg her to remove the blindfold. Mistress looked gorgeous in her leather skirt and PVC bra. In her hand she held her dildo. I watched as she lifted her skirt and started to slide it in and out of her pussy, listening as she taunted me about how much I wanted to replace the dildo with my tongue, or my cock.

The dildo was pushed into my mouth and I sucked the juices off of it, tasting her delicious pussy from the hard, smooth surface. Surprisingly my cock wasn't responding much yet, but as soon as Mistress straddled my face and ordered me to lick her wet slit I felt it getting VERY hard VERY quickly.

Despite being rock hard Mistress pretty much ignored my cock to start with and I wondered if she was intending to follow through on her previous comments that she could disregard my cock for the whole session if she wanted to... as it turned out this was only a temporary situation and she eventually started to slap and whip my cock (and my balls to now and then), which only made my cock even harder.

Mistress knelt down beside me and bent forward to take my very hard, very red cock into her mouth. It felt amazing, but she was teasing more than she was sucking, her tongue flicking against the underside and even my tightly bound balls. She sat upright and made me beg to see her gorgeous breasts, which she offered in turn to my eager mouth.

Then she straddled my head again and my cock got even harder as I tasted how wet she was becoming. Then she turned around and started teasing me with her amazing ass... meanwhile the slapping and whipping continued and then she decided to use the cock whip on my chest. She flicked the small whip against the peg on my left nipple and it flew clean off. 

Fuck that hurt! But Mistress didn't miss a beat, she picked up the peg and asked me if I wanted it back on or not. I told her she should do whatever pleased her and she placed it back on my nipple. I love that Mistress did not slip out of character when this happened. In the past I'm sure she would have been worried about 'hurting' me, and obviously that is a sensitive topic, but this is just momentary pain... and as much as I did not like the pain in that moment, the truth is I would put the pegs on my nipples again without a second thought because I love the idea of suffering for my Mistress's amusement and pleasure.

Mistress continued teasing my cock and then reached back and pulled the peg off my nipple again without warning. It didn't hurt as much as when she flicked it off with the whip but it still hurt and while I was still thanking her she plucked the other one off too (though that one wasn't as painful).

Mistress stood by the bed and put one foot up on the mattress. She picked up her glass dildo again and told me she would be leaving me for a few moments and that she wanted me to be thinking about what she was going to want me to do, or was going to make me do when she came back. She slid the glass cock inside her pussy again and then had me lick it clean.

When she came back she stood on the bed and unfastened her leather skirt, slipped it off and then straddled my head again. Her pussy was still soaking wet and I couldn't wait to get between her beautiful thighs and make her cum. Mistress untied me and told me to remove the Oxballs Cocksling, and then get up on my hands and knees. 

I felt what I thought was the paddle striking my ass, it turned out later that it was the crop (another toy we've had for at least ten years and barely used). It felt okay actually, I was a trying to figure out which side of the paddle Mistress was using on me, so I think it's fair to say it feels somewhere in between the harsh leather side and the softer red side.

She took hold of the ring end of the dildo and started fucking me with it, reaching beneath me to stroke my cock - though having just taken the Cocksling off it was pretty soft. Mistress asked me if this was as good as when she fucked me with her strap-on last time. I said it wasn't, it doesn't create quite the same 'submissive' feeling as being 'fucked' properly, although it's still fairly challenging mentally. 

Mistress started using more of the length of the glass dildo, which (probably because I only used a tiny amount of lube to get it in) suddenly felt quite intense... and indeed I noticed it started to rub against my prostate and I felt... it's hard to describe really, it's not like edging through stimulation to your cock, it's much more intense and 'deep'... more like a feeling of losing control, I've read that it feels like you need to urinate and that's quite accurate actually.

I can imagine if Mistress did make me cum that way it would be pretty powerful and I've read that it feels very intense even with zero stimulation to your cock. Now that I've found the 'Eros' prostate massager, maybe we can try it out properly...

Then finally it was time to worship Mistress's gorgeous pussy and make her cum. She was still really wet and she tasted delicious as she always does. As much as I love everything we do in these sessions this is still the best part for me, nothing gives me as much pleasure as feeling Mistress tensing up and cumming under my tongue.

Once Mistress had finished cumming she stood up on the bed facing away from me and ordered me to lick her clean. She was really soaked and one particular rivulet of juice made it past her knee. I greedily licked up everything I could reach and then Mistress turned around to allow me to clean her pussy too.

Then she told me to lick the sheet clean and lie down on my back. She stood over me again, but left my arms free and allowed me to rub my hands up and down her legs and to pull her cheeks apart to expose her gorgeous, pink asshole. She slapped my cock and stroked it until it was hard again as she continued to tease me with her ass. She eventually told me that she wasn't going to allow me to cum today, but that she was going to let me worship her asshole, as long as I begged her convincingly.

After some heartfelt begging Mistress lowered her ass down onto my face and allowed me to taste her. As I lapped at her ass I felt her take my cock into her mouth again, which I might tell you is a pretty fucking awesome feeling! :) Mistress lifted off and pumped my cock hard, trying to get me to the edge no doubt, before she made me beg for a second taste.

Mistress sank down onto my face a second time, pumping my cock as hard as she could. It felt so good, but too soon Mistress lifted off and knelt beside me, continuing to stoke my rock hard cock, teasing me with her gorgeous breasts until finally I got to the edge and Mistress let go... 

Well that was pretty awesome, roll on Christmas!

A Milestone...

I don't know what made me think of it, but I realised today that Mistress and I have been married for 28 years and (almost) two months, and I've been in full time chastity since April 2011, which is 11 years and 7 months. This means that over 40% of our marriage has been 'in chastity...' and I have to say, the last 40% has probably been the best part. I wonder if there could be some connection? :)

FEMDOM SESSION: 16th November 2021

Unfortunately due to one thing and another October's Femdom session didn't happen, but thankfully today we ticked November's session off and maybe we can add an extra one in between now and the end of December to make up for it. We're aiming for the 30th of November, so fingers crossed!

I woke up this morning very hard and feeling very eager to cum, so much so that I felt like I could easily have cum with the gentlest of teases or maybe even just through having my ass fucked (that hasn't happened yet, but maybe one day when I've been denied long enough). It's been 34 days since I was last allowed a full orgasm, and I always find the 30-40 day period is maybe the hardest, I don't know why but around the 35 day mark is always when I often wake up very horny and desperate, so today wasn't at all unexpected, especially knowing what was on the cards...

Mistress and I are on holiday this week, so we took advantage of this to schedule our session between two busy days of 'doing stuff'. As it happened we had to get up early and go out somewhere, but we were back by 9am and we started our session at 10:45.

Mistress left instructions for me to blindfold myself and to fit the Oxballs ball stretcher (which went on surprisingly easily) which does what it says on the tin; stretches my balls and makes them look very red right off the bat (I'm sure they were a lot redder by the time Mistress had finished with them though). As I knelt on the floor at the bottom of the bed, Mistress came into the room and used her instep to tease my balls, making my cock start to grow and swell. It got hard very quickly, but Mistress ignored it and instead asked if I had any 'illegal' touching to confess to.

Since it had been two months or more since our last session unfortunately there was, and Mistress set about 'reminding' me that she controls my cock and balls with her cat and then both sides of her paddle. The whip is stingy but the leather side of the paddle is the worst, thankfully she didn't abuse my ass too much...

This drained the blood out of my cock pretty effectively, but it soon started to flow again when Mistress had me worship her gorgeous feet while she started playing with her dildo. She also started verbally teasing me about how she could do whatever she wanted in these sessions and if she so pleased she could totally ignore my cock the whole time and just make me worship her pussy and feet over and over again... with perhaps just a few minutes of intense cock and ball torture at the end of the session.

My cock throbbed away merrily as she spoke and I could hear her dildo pushing inside her delicious pussy. I love it when Mistress talks like this, it's so hot... and I had to fight the temptation to reach down between my legs and stroke my aching cock.

Mistress allowed me to suck her dildo clean a couple of times, giving me my first taste of her delicious pussy. I was really desperate to taste her properly and thankfully it wouldn't be too long until I was flat on my back with Mistress straddling my head and grinding her pussy against my tongue. I adore having Mistress ride my face like this and my cock was rock hard by the time she climbed off. 

Before Mistress tied me down she had me up on my hands and knees and she pushed the ring ended glass dildo into my ass. I hoped/guessed this meant she was intending to fuck my ass later in the session and I wasn't to be disappointed. But for now Mistress set about teasing and abusing my cock, lubing it up before whipping it with her cock whip, slapping it with her hand and biting the head with her teeth. My balls also received a fair amount of abuse, the cock whip in particular being put to good use and leaving a sting more than once.

As Mistress caressed and abused me she reminded me again that nothing I could do to myself would ever feel as good as this and she was of course 100% right. This all felt absolutely amazing, and clearly Mistress was loving it too as each time she straddled my face her pussy was wetter and wetter. I was surprised though when she straddled me and guided my cock inside her wet hole, I can't even remember the last time I was allowed inside her... I don't even know for sure that it was this year. I know I came inside her last October (incidentally we've broken the longest time for waiting to cum inside Mistress which previously stood at 348 days, it's now day 403 and counting). It sure did feel good to be inside her again, even if it was only briefly.

Soon Mistress removed my blindfold and stood over me, resplendent in her PVC bra and leather skirt. She fucked herself with her dildo and then had me clean it yet again, then she released my bonds and told me to turn over on my front and get up on my hands and knees. She removed the ring-ended dildo and I heard her sliding the RodeOh pants on, while I waited expectantly.

I heard Mistress squirt lube onto her 'cock' and then she climbed on the bed behind me and forced it into my asshole. As ever this part of the session was a conflict of emotions for me; I really, really, really wanted Mistress to fuck me and dominate me this way, even though I knew it probably wouldn't be 100% comfortable. It's one of those things that I crave, but then when it's happening I can't decide if I want it to stop or not... thankfully Mistress made the decision for me, fucking (and spanking) my ass, occasionally pausing to reach down to tease my cock and balls.

During the last few strokes I felt the beginnings of an edge coming, even though I wasn't at all hard. I'm not sure how much longer it would have taken to get me there, but I think probably longer than Mistress would want to keep fucking me. If Mistress wants to explore that further then I think it would probably be better with a hand held dildo, or maybe that prostate massager that we bought about 20 years ago and never actually tried... either way I think I need to have my ass penetrated more often so that I can get more used to it and it's easier when Mistress wants to fuck my ass properly.

Mistress finally pulled out of me and told me to turn back over. She tied my wrists again then stood over me, presenting her 'cock' to my mouth. As I pulled up to take it in my mouth she pressed forward, pushing it deeper into my mouth. She did this a couple of times then stood up again, looking down at me and said 'You love worshipping my 'cock' as well as my pussy, don't you slave?'. Soooo HOT!

Mistress allowed me to take the ball stretcher off before she pegged my nipples (it was just starting to sting, I guess it had been on for half an hour by this point) and left me alone, but before she departed she took the RodeOh pants off and straddled my face once more, now she was really wet - and I loved the thought that fucking my ass and making me suck her 'cock' got her so fucking wet. :)

When Mistress returned her fingers hovered over the pegs and I held my breath waiting for the pain, but Mistress wasn't having that and told me to beg her to remove them. No sooner than I'd finished the sentence she plucked one of the pegs off and then made me beg all over again. I really love this cruel side to my Mistress... I love how much she enjoys whipping my tightly bound balls too.

Now it was finally time to worship Mistress R's divine pussy properly and as she pulled my head down between her gorgeous thighs I felt so happy to be allowed to taste her at length and make her cum. I adore eating Mistress' pussy, and as I lapped at her sodden slit I remembered what she'd said earlier about making me eat her pussy over and over again for as long as she wanted and my cock stiffened against the PVC sheet below me.

Mistress came pretty hard with my tongue working her clit and my index finder gently circling her asshole. This was Mistress's 1220th orgasm since April 2011, by comparison I have had 145... I cannot tell you how much I love feeling her tense up and explode in the way that I am only occasionally allowed to. I love that the focus is always on her pleasure, when you are in full time chastity like I am making your partner cum becomes so important and rewarding: I would never choose an orgasm for myself over being allowed to make Mistress cum, and if Mistress decided that all my orgasms would be ruined in future I would be just as happy as long as I got to eat her pussy and make her cum.

Mistress had me lick up the pussy juice from the PVC sheet and from the backs of her thighs before she sat on my face and allowed me to clean her soaking wet pussy properly. She tasted so fucking good, I would have loved to have licked her to another orgasm, but instead she turned around and leaned forward, parting her cheeks to give me a perfect view of her gorgeous asshole.

As much as I adore Mistress's delicious pussy, I love her ass almost as much... and Mistress knows it. She teased me with it a while before telling me to beg to be allowed to worship it. I didn't need to be told twice and Mistress sank down onto my face, presenting her gorgeous asshole for my tongue. As I licked and gently probed her tight ass she stroked my throbbing cock hard, though surprisingly as worked up as I was mentally, I was nowhere near the edge.

Mistress allowed me to lick her ass a couple of times before moving off, kneeling beside me and telling me that the session was over. Whew, I can't wait for the next one!

Comment from a Reader.

 Hi Robert & Mistress R I love your blog and have spent many many hours reading all of it, I hope you will post more regularly in future, I really miss hearing about your chastity journey and your excellent stories. Annie

Thanks Annie, I'm glad you have enjoyed reading the blog. I wish there was more to say currently, but unfortunately at the moment it's very much 'status quo'. Nothing has really changed or advanced for quite a long time (actually I would even say it has gone backwards in some areas) so I feel like I'm just repeating myself ad nauseum which I'm sure isn't that interesting to read (or write for that matter). 

I have got numerous story ideas on file, I've got a story that I started months ago and remains half finished... I think the last time I worked on it was May (I started it in March). But then writing stories seems to go in phases, once I get going I might write half a dozen one after another and then it seems to burn out - in between I struggle to get them going and even more to get them finished.

Maybe the two are connected.... let's hope both pick up in the near future.

FEMDOM SESSION: 14th September 2021

Unfortunately, it seems we have missed our 'August' session... this was in large part due to hot weather and general grumpiness. But we have at least made sure we got our September session in and maybe if we have one early next month and one at the end we could squeeze that August one back in. Well, we'll see... all that really matters is that today happened and we have only lost one session so far this Femdom year.

The big news today really was that my longest ever period of chastity came to an end after 135 days. The previous record was 119 days, so we upped the number by 16 and that equates to four months and 12 days (with three ruined orgasms during that time). Wow!

As ever I was very conflicted about what I wanted and very happy that the decision was Mistress R's to make. While I know this week will be a little bit weird as I get back into it, I can't be unhappy about being allowed to cum - even if part of me really craves being denied indefinitely.

Mistress looked amazing as always today, she was just wearing a skirt and a PVC bra when she finally took my blindfold off and sank down onto my face. Later she ditched the skirt and switched it for a pair of crotchless panties... she wore these when it was time for me to go down on her properly and make her cum. Afterwards she took them off and handed them to me, telling me to suck them clean. They were soaking wet and I happily sucked all her gorgeous juices out of them, which was extremely hot!

Throughout the session Mistress teased me about whether or not she should let me cum or not, while making it clear that it was entirely up to her whether she did or whether she made me wait another week, month or another 130 days. I loved hearing all this and she had my cock throbbing inside the Oxballs Cocksling as she dragged her nails up and down it, stroked it, licked it and occasionally sucked the head. She slapped it a lot too, which made it even harder, and she also used the cock whip. It feels a little sore in a couple of places right now, but it was more than worth it. :)

Mistress's crotchless panties were very pretty but they did restrict access to her asshole a little bit. As I licked her I pressed my finger between her cheeks and pushed the material against her ass, it was only a little later that I managed to work my finger under the material and gently press my finger against her asshole properly, and once I got there it wasn't too long until she had a pretty hard orgasm.

Early in the session Mistress did ask if she allowed me to cum where I might like to shoot. I immediately told her I wanted to cum on her feet, which she noted while also telling me that even if she did let me cum she might not take any notice of my request. So later on while I was laying on my back, with my nipples pegged and waiting for her to return from the other room I started to wonder whether she might be plotting something.

In the past Mistress has fairly often given me a choice between being allowed to worship her gorgeous asshole or cumming, but this time (spurred no doubt by a comment made earlier in the session) I wondered if she might give me a more complex choice. I wondered if she would say I could choose to cum on her feet and lick it up, but in that case I would have to forego the ass worship I desperately wanted, or I could worship her ass but then I could only cum on the PVC sheet (and lick it up).

I figured if she offered me a straight choice between worshipping her ass and cumming then I would probably choose to worship her ass, but that was hard because I have been thinking about cumming on her pretty feet for so long now; but either way it's interesting that I wasn't really contemplating the idea that Mistress might not let me cum at all. In the end though, Mistress allowed me to worship her gorgeous asshole AND cum on her feet! 

It was a fucking huge load as well, both of her feet were well covered and I really loved licking them clean afterwards. Sometimes in the past, even after a considerable period of denial there has been less cum than I expected, but today there was more than enough and after the initial spurts which landed on the top of her feet and toes Mistress rubbed her feet on my very sensitive cockhead smearing the cum across her soles as it pumped out again and again...

Needless to say I feel quite drained now. Drained but very happy and excited to get back on the chastity wagon. And excited at how much Mistress enjoyed the session and her orgasm too. I hope she gives me some soaking wet panties to suck on again soon...  :)

A New Record...

Between March and July 2019 I set my record for the longest period without an orgasm (119 days) but that record has now been broken. I equalled the record a couple of weeks ago (my last orgasm happened on the 2nd of May) and as of today my record stands at 133 days... and of course each day that goes past adds one more to that total.

While of course there is part of me that wants to cum, as always there is also a very large of part of me that does not. Those few seconds of pleasure are followed by at least a fortnight of trying to get back into the 'zone' of denial. It's times like these when I start fantasizing about 'permanent' denial... and when Mistress edges me I imagine her teasing me about not letting me cum for a very long time or whispering in my ear that she's seriously considering 'never letting me cum properly again'.

While that is quite extreme and maybe the fantasy is better than reality, it's not uncommon for guys who are in full time chastity to say they don't really want to cum. I find the only time I really want to cum is in the days after a full orgasm; once I am back in the 'zone' I kinda don't, because I hate the downswing and the refractory period......

What I love about being long term denied is how hard I am and how intense the teasing can be and I know it takes probably two-three weeks to get back to anything like where I want to be. On the other hand, I do love cumming on Mistress's gorgeous body and licking it clean, so that is one other thing to take into consideration. 

It's funny, I say each day is a new record and I know a lot of guys obsess about numbers, but to be honest it's not about that. I don't really care if it's 120 days or 150 days or 200 days, or whatever it is.... if I've been denied more than a few days then I don't really want to cum because I want to gat back to that 'zone' and if I've been denied a week or two then I don't want to cum because I want to stay in the zone.

Of course the other time I really want to cum is about three seconds before I hit the edge. It really isn't until the edge is threatening to become unstoppable that the balance tips, up until that point I really don't. I love being stroked, slapped, scratched and all the rest of it, 

I think if Mistress told me that she was going to give me a 'voucher' and that I had to tell her when I wanted my next proper orgasm she'd be very surprised how long I would wait. That would be quite interesting, since presumably then Mistress would be trying to get me to use the voucher and she would be teasing me about cumming on her feet and licking them clean while I was trying to resist the temptation. 

That would be kinda fun since she would be edging me knowing that unless I caved in and used my voucher she would ruin it, and since she knew that she could edge me pretty hard and long... sounds awesome!

Vibrating Butt Plugs?

Does anyone have experience with or can recommend a vibrating butt plug? I would like one with a remote control if at all possible. I've been reading lots of reviews online but they all seem to have something negative to say. The oddly shaped ones all seem to have the same problem in that they seem to 'fall out' in use, which is a pain in the arse (or not as the case may be). 

So I guess ideally it should be the classic 'butt plug' shape with a narrow neck so that it stays in. But it seems like it also needs to have the vibrating bullet inside the plug rather than in the base as the ones with them in the base don't work very well...

I was thinking that Mistress could leave me 'buzzing' when she leaves me alone in our Femdom sessions, and even zap me from the other room with the remote. I don't mind paying a reasonable amount for something good but I don't want to pay like £90 for something that turns out to be shit and only gets used once.

Also I don't want one that uses an app, just a normal remote please...