Another Year of Full Time Chastity Ends...

Our thirteenth year of full time chastity has finally come to a close and I thought I would share with you a couple of graphs representing our relative orgasm stats. Not much point doing the other graphs this year as you know we've just had the one Femdom session and I haven't cum anywhere except on my own stomach and Mistress's hands the last two years (hopefully that will change this coming year though...). 

Despite our best efforts (a run of 10 in March) we just failed to get Mistress back into the hundreds, but we came very close and this marks a significant increase over last year's lowpoint. And when you consider Mistress had 98 orgasms to my 5 (full orgasms) that's still nearly a 20>1 ratio -  almost double our original target!

As you can see from this second graph, I have enjoyed a total of ten orgasms, 5 ruined and 5 full in the last year. This is the lowest combined total since we started. While I'm happy with 5 full orgasms, I would like a few more ruins (preferably on Mistress's beautiful feet or pussy)... in fact I would be happy to give up full orgasms for more ruined ones, but I guess I will have to wait and see what Mistress decides. 

Our First Femdom Session in nearly two years!

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Don't You Just LOVE January?

I'm being sarcastic of course, January sucks major ass in every possible way. But we've just gotta get on with it haven't we? After all what's the alternative, curl up in a corner until February... if only. 

It's a funny thing getting older, and it ain't exactly fun. I remarked to Mistress earlier today how one of the things about getting older is how easy it is to hurt yourself without even trying. I was just standing by my car the other day and my knee went too far the wrong way for no reason at all. Rather painful and so ridiculous! 

Also , it feels kinda like I'm reaching the age where I'm moving to a different part of my life. I recently disposed of my guitar and amps because it finally dawned on me that after ten years of not actually doing anything musical that maybe I'm not actually going to 'make it' as a rock star. Well maybe I knew that already since I cut my hair off nearly 25 years ago... plus now my guitar playing is so terrible it's just not worth even bothering.

But I didn't realise quite how inactive I have been on the writing front. I mean I know I haven't posted anything for a long time and I know I come on here every so often telling you that I have stories to write, etc etc... but I just clicked on my 'Stories' tab and I see the last story I posted was in January 2021.

Three years ago! 

There was a flurry of productivity in 2020 with the furlough and being at home with little to do (that seems a long time ago now, hey?), and two in 2019, nothing in 2018... you would be forgiven for thinking my writing is as dead as my musical career.

But actually I do still have things going on, I just don't seem to be able to finish them. It's annoying. I hoped to finish at least one over Christmas and it didn't happen (again)... I just always seem to have something else I need to do (I am still writing a non-sex blog which takes up a lot of my time) and as always I need to be in the mood for being creative.

But at least me and Mistress R are still continuing our 'chastity' lifestyle (with a little Femdom thrown in). This afternoon Mistress had a really nice orgasm on my tongue and then she proceeded to tease my cock with her hand and the cock whip. That felt fucking great, I gotta tell you. Especially the harder hits to my balls - felt like her hand but I think it was the whip. Either way I loved it!

Obviously I wasn't allowed to cum. But I wasn't expecting to. So maybe January isn't 100% terrible after all. 🤣

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year everyone, I hope you all had a great Christmas and New Year. I have to say I'm not a great fan of the time between Boxing Day and New Year because while on the one hand I never have to work I always feel like once Christmas is over with I just want to crack on with the New Year along with all that entails (eating better, organizing myself and just generally making a fresh start). So now that 2024 is here I actually a feel a lot better and I'm almost looking forward to going back to work tomorrow.

Well, almost. Hahaha. But no, I am looking forward to getting back into a routine and going to sleep before 3am... and getting up before 10am! Although I won't be saying that tomorrow morning I assure you. I think the thing that frustrates me is that I get all this time off work and yet I don't seem to ever manage to put it to good use. Maybe I should just accept that I need one week a year when I can totally turn off and just relax. 

No movement on the story front unfortunately (see my comments above), but I did get another idea, so now I have seven on the go instead of 6, can we call that progress? Not really. But then again this is the thing, to write and/or be creative I need to be feeling good, not tired and slothful, so maybe I need to look at Christmas differently instead of being annoyed with myself that I 'wasted' the time off.

On a more positive note, I managed to lose 12lbs before Christmas and I only put 5lbs back on (which I figure can be gone in 7-10 days) so that worked out very well. Also I'm heading into 2024 with just 8 days on the board, Mistress having given me an amazing orgasm on Christmas Eve while I worshipped her delicious ass. Wow that really was a great early Christmas gift. Mistress even floated the idea of a Femdom Session in December, it didn't actually happen but at least the idea isn't dead and is something we can work towards getting back on track in 2024.