Yesterday Mistress showed me a thread on Mumsnet where someone had been in a relationship with a guy for a year before he asked her to use 'toys' on him. She didn't feel comfortable with this and ultimately they split up. Which is fair enough, if she doesn't want to do something then she has every right to say no and equally he has every right to say he will never be truly happy unless he can share this side of himself with his partner.
Part of the issue was that the woman was annoyed because he 'wasted' a year of her life before dropping this on her, which okay isn't ideal, especially if she's wanting to start a family and thinks she's found the father of her kids, but I can't help wondering how long it would take me to broach this subject (or Femdom and Chastity come to that) if I was single... probably quite a while if I'm honest. Or maybe not... I don't know. I guess it depends on how I thought the other person would react. I never brought up Femdom for three or four years but then I don't really think it was something I was that into when we got together, it just kind of developed over time.
More troubling really in my eyes were the vitriolic responses from the other harridans who seemingly couldn't wait to tell this unfortunate woman that all men are sick, perverted bastards who will have you 'shoving things up their arses every night of the week and twice on Sundays'.
I did chime in and question some of these opinions, pointing out that Love Honey advertise regularly on television these days and surely 'sex toys' are really not that big a deal anymore? Well, apparently 'sex toys' are only intended for men to use on women, and that's the end of it! Right. I also pointed out that some women enjoy 'shoving things up their arses' too, but that didn't garner much response unfortunately.
All this, of course, came just a few hours after Mistress and I's wonderful Femdom session and over the last twenty four hours it's really given me pause for thought. I don't think that I've ever taken my wonderful, amazing and utterly gorgeous Mistress for granted, but it's certainly made me realise all over again how truly fortunate I am to have found someone who not only loves me, but who I can be completely open with when it comes to sex.
Granted it hasn't always been 'easy' or simple to navigate getting to where we are now, but from my perspective it's definitely been worth every difficult conversation and I hope Mistress feels the same way too.
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A comment from a reader posted on yesterday's session post:
Anonymous7 April 2025 at 13:45
"'You'd suck my juices off a real cock if I told you to, wouldn't you?' gets me every time. The truth is that when I feel like this I know Mistress could make me do anything she wanted... including that, and worse."
Wow Robert, this really hits with me too. I know this feeling so well. And I agree with you, my wife/Mistress could make me do pretty much anything when I'm in that kind of headspace. It's blissful and exciting in the moment but almost scary once you've come out of it. But I crave it as I'm sure you do too... it's the most intense, amazing feeling, but impossible to truly to describe to someone who hasn't experienced it.
BR
Thanks for your comment BR, much appreciated. Yes I agree completely, it is kinda scary... but just thinking about it makes me feel giddy. I adore that feeling so much, of being so 'under her spell' and wanting to please Mistress so much that I would do anything she asked, no matter how humiliating. It's a truly incredible feeling... I can't wait to feel it again.
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