Mistress Scarlet's 'Journals of Real Female Domination: Volume 18'

Mistress tells me that she tends not to read posts that I write that aren't directly about our life together, so I should be safe to post this... and if not, well I guess it's worth the risk!  🤣

Recently I bought a Femdom book called 'Journals of Real Female Domination: Volume 18' by Mistress Scarlet. I've had Mistress Scarlet's blog on my reading list for quite a while now, but rarely visited it. However recently I started to read it more frequently and I must admit I find it quite intriguing, interesting and at times arousing, despite some parts of her and her husband/slave's lifestyle being quite extreme.

Several times recently Mistress Scarlet mentioned that she had written a book for Uxos (submissives) and also a book for partners of Uxos explaining to them why their 'submissive' partner is the way they are and how to... 'exploit' them for mutual gain, I guess! 

I was intrigued, but knowing that Mistress would no more read a book about that than I would read a book about... (umm, I can't really think of anything suitably witty at this moment in time, but you get the idea), I wasn't really going to spend my hard earned cash on either of them. But I did notice that Mistress Scarlet had also published several 'journals' and I thought that might be more worthwhile.

I suppose if I'd thought about it a little more I would have realised that I was basically buying a collection of 'blog posts' I could have basically read for free, but then it's still nice to have an actual book to read rather than simply scrolling through page after page on a computer and it's easier for me to read in bed before I go to sleep (for instance).

What I didn't think about was that when I bought my copy (from eBay of all places) I would then receive a feedback from the seller so now anytime someone goes to check my feedback to see if they should buy from me that's right at the top of the list. FFS... 🤣

Anyway... I chose Journal Number 18, and so far I'm quite enjoying it. It can be a bit repetitive, honestly. If you took a shot every time Mistress Scarlet tells you how much she enjoys being a heartless, pitiless bitch you would be hospitalised in an hour. But I suppose if I collected a bunch of my posts into a book you would probably find similar repetitions, so fair enough.

Mistress Scarlet's 'cruelty' and 'heartlessness' is for sure a big part of the appeal of her posts. In her most recent post she mentions how she has slowly taken away every last bit of pleasure her slave could enjoy, reducing him to an observer as she masturbates to a quite incredible number of orgasms, before curtly dismissing him or ordering him to fetch her something (a cup of tea, in one instance) before telling him to 'fuck off'.

The book I am reading is set around five years ago and in it she describes reading about another Domme giving her slave 50 numbered metal discs each representing one of his 50 'remaining' orgasms, after which - no more. Mistress Scarlet took this idea and tweaked it a little, taking a book of 250 raffle tickets and telling her slave that each ticket represented one orgasm...  

Since her slave is over 60 years old and only enjoys a limited number of orgasms a year anyway, this was clearly way too many. But Mistress Scarlett had already decided she would entertain herself by ripping tickets out of the book and screwing them up as if they were nothing while her slave watched on horrified.

As it goes, Mistress Scarlet eventually decided she didn't like the idea of her slave being able to choose when he would orgasm (albeit that didn't seem to me to be how it worked anyway) and after a short while she abandoned the idea. But, as she pointed out, even if she had gone through with it and given him one 'final' orgasm - she could always have told him she was fucking with him and changed her mind. Fast forward to the current day and her slave is indeed expecting to have his 'final' orgasm (under her foot, as they all now seem to be) before the end of the year; and it seems pretty final this time, so clearly things developed over the last few years!

There are parts of the book that don't interest me though. I didn't realise from reading recent posts on Mistress Scarlet's blog that their relationship involved quite so much sissification, lisping and colouring time with dollies. Perhaps that's no longer part of the equation as I don't recall reading anything about that on her blog, but then again a lot of posts I've read on her blog have been more about Femdom in general and less about her and her husband's private life. 

Actually, aside from Mistress Scarlet's seemingly endless appetite for masturbation there's actually very little in the way of 'sex' in the book. There is a brief mention of 'lovers', but so far (I am only a third of the way through the book at present) nothing more has come of that. There is no pegging either (not yet anyway) which I maybe expected, but there is some quite harsh CBT (including the application of nettles and some kind of heat balm).

When choosing a book to buy I thought I would go back several years as I thought it would be interesting to read what things were like before they got so extreme (with him not even being able to touch her anymore). But it seems I didn't go back anything like far enough, as even back in 2020 he was having to roll a 50 sided dice for a chance to touch her breasts and then being whipped for wasting her time if he failed to guess the right number.

Maybe when I have finished this book I will investigate Mistress Scarlet's blog more thoroughly and see how things progressed to where they ended up. As just reading this book it's quite hard to fathom how anyone would accept getting themselves into this position, but I think it's just a case of something developing over a very long period of time and Mistress Scarlet being a very enthusiastic and extremely pitiless Domme. 

Regardless of anything else I do think Mistress Scarlet speaks a lot of sense on her blog though, and she definitely seems to know what makes a submissive male's mind tick. Her lifestyle is far too extreme for me, but I can understand how parts of it are appealing and there have definitely been times when reading her blog and book that I have found my cock getting surprisingly and unexpectedly hard!

And yeah, strangely, reading about her callously ripping up her husband's 'orgasm' tickets was one of them...!

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